Cooper Flagg’s Mom Clarifies Perceived Reaction to Nico Harrison’s Firing

Dallas Mavericks rookie Cooper Flagg’s mom, Kelly Flagg, has cleared the air after she went viral for seemingly reacting to general manager Nico Harrison’s firing.

Kelly shared a post via X on Monday, November 10, in which a Mavericks fan complained about Cooper, 18, having to hear “fire Nico” chants while he is shooting free throws. The post called Harrison, 52, a distraction. The organization fired him the next day.

“Cooper Flagg’s mom has entered the chat 😳,” The Athletic’s NBA X account wrote on Tuesday. “Kelly Flagg reposted a fan tweet about Nico Harrison to her X account.”

“Retweet wasn’t about firing Nico,” Kelly replied in a quote-post. “It was about the fact that the fans were chanting during our free throws. Our guys had nothing to do with what went down.”

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She added, “It’s done now so we all need to move on. Hopefully better days ahead.”

Kelly has been one of her son’s most outspoken supporters since he debuted for Duke University in 2024. The one-and-done phenom went No. 1 overall in the 2025 NBA Draft to the Mavericks, where he is averaging 15 points per game through 11 games.

Cooper Flagg Mom Kelly Responds After Going Viral for Perceived Reaction to GM Nico Harrison Firing
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During Cooper’s time at Duke, Kelly made headlines when she called University of North Carolina fans “classless a**holes” in a lengthy Facebook rant after the Blue Devils defeated their arch-rivals on the road in March. She believed that Tar Heels fans were disrespectful to her and her family during the game and called her over-the-top celebration to a dunk from her son a “big F-you to the entire Carolina fan base.”

“I’ve learned that people shouldn’t mess with Mama Bear,” Kelly told Us Weekly exclusively the week after that game as the Blue Devils were preparing for the NCAA Tournament. “Mama Bear definitely can come out, even when I don’t want it to. Sometimes I can’t help it.”

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But as she explained, she takes her role seriously as her son’s biggest fan. That means making sure Cooper and his teammates are ready for each game.

“If a team is warming up and they’re just kind of going through the motions, a lot of times they come out flat to start the game,” she explained. “I feel like it is my personal responsibility to make sure that our parent section brings the energy. In fact, I think we coached them to that win against UNC by really getting the crowd going.”

“I’m just so passionate about these boys and what they’re doing,” she added. “I know how much they want it and I know how hard they’ve worked for it. I know the hours that have gone into it.”

Cooper isn’t the only member of the family to benefit from Kelly’s passion. He also has a fraternal twin brother, Ace, who is a freshman at the University of Maine, the Flaggs’ home state. (Cooper reclassified in high school to the class of 2024 to enter college a year early.)

Ace, 18, scored 10 points in his collegiate debut against George Washington on November 3.

“He’s done such a great job of being his own person, being authentically who he is as a player, and developing in his own time,” Kelly told the Bangor Daily News of Ace in March 2025.

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Mutharika fulfills promise with launch of 2025/2026 Farm Input Subsidy Programme in Mchinji

….The President says his administration is committed to food security and prosperity, pledging to deliver only what can be achieved.

MCHINJI-(MaraviPost)-President Arthur Peter Mutharika Government on Wednesday officially launched of the 2025/2026 Farm Input Subsidy Programme (FISP) in Mchinji District, fulfilling a key promise he made during the opening of the 52nd Session of Parliament on October 31, 2025.

In a statement posted on his official Facebook page, President Mutharika expressed satisfaction that his administration had successfully implemented one of its major policy commitments aimed at improving agricultural productivity and food security.

The President reminded Malawians that during his parliamentary address, he had pledged that the FISP would return this farming season, targeting 1.1 million households across the country.

Each beneficiary household, he said, would receive two 50kg bags of fertilizer at a subsidized price of K10,000 per bag, along with a 5kg pack of seed of their choice.

The President emphasized that the reintroduction of FISP was part of his broader vision to revitalize Malawi’s agriculture sector, enhance national food security, and stimulate rural economic growth.

“I am excited that today, my Government has fulfilled that promise by officially launching the 2025/2026 Farm Inputs Subsidy Programme in Mchinji District,” he wrote.

He said the program was designed to boost production, empower smallholder farmers, and ensure prosperity for all Malawians.

President Mutharika reaffirmed his commitment to honesty and accountability in leadership, stating that he will only make promises that his administration is capable of delivering.

“As your President, I will deliver on my promises, and I will only promise that which I can deliver,” he declared.

The FISP launch event, held at Kankhande Primary School grounds in Traditional Authority Mavwere, drew farmers, traditional leaders, and government officials who welcomed the program as a timely intervention ahead of the rainy season.

The President’s message underscores his government’s focus on agriculture as the backbone of Malawi’s economy, with policies aimed at transforming the sector into a driver of sustainable development.

The FISP, which has previously benefited millions of rural households, remains one of the country’s most impactful social and economic interventions, though it has faced challenges in implementation and targeting in past years.

President Mutharika’s decision to reintroduce the program signals his administration’s intent to restore public confidence in government-driven agricultural initiatives and address persistent food insecurity affecting many rural communities.

Observers note that the reintroduction of FISP could also stabilize maize production and prices, ensuring that the country avoids recurring hunger crises.

The program is expected to have a ripple effect across the economy by supporting agribusinesses, reducing poverty, and improving livelihoods for millions of Malawians.

With the official launch now complete, distribution of the inputs is set to begin immediately across all regions, ensuring that farmers access fertilizer and seed in time for the planting season.

As the nation prepares for another agricultural cycle, President Mutharika’s commitment to “Sustaining a People-Centered Government” reflects his administration’s resolve to keep citizens at the heart of national development.

The successful rollout of FISP, according to analysts, will serve as a major test of the Mutharika government’s ability to deliver tangible results and strengthen Malawi’s long-term path toward food self-sufficiency.

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Political Interference threatens Salima-Lilongwe Water Project

By Zakeyu Mamba

LILONGWE-(MaraviPost)-The Salima–Lilongwe Water Supply Project, once hailed as Malawi’s flagship infrastructure development, is now facing serious setbacks due to corruption, political interference, and weak management systems.

The multi-billion-kwacha project, designed to channel water from Lake Malawi in Salima to Lilongwe City, was intended to end decades of persistent water shortages in the capital.

However, recent report which we have seen reveal growing internal wrangles, misuse of funds, and delays have crippled progress.

Sources close to the project allege that some officials have turned the initiative into a tool for personal and political gain rather than focusing on its core mission of providing clean and reliable water to residents of Lilongwe.

The project involves a 120-kilometre pipeline, several pumping stations, and modern water treatment facilities.

By October 2025, construction had reportedly reached around 35 percent, but insiders now say work has almost come to a halt.

Delayed payments, procurement disputes, and a lack of transparency have been identified as major obstacles.

Experts warn that if the current trend of corruption and mismanagement continues, the project could collapse entirely wasting billions of taxpayers’ money and leaving the capital city’s residents still struggling with water scarcity.

Some civil society groups suspect deliberate sabotage by individuals with vested political or business interests in maintaining the status quo.

The situation has sparked public concern about accountability and leadership within government institutions overseeing the project.

Advocacy groups are now calling for an independent audit and tighter oversight mechanisms to protect public resources.

If effectively managed, the Salima–Lilongwe Water Project could revolutionize water access and drive economic growth in Lilongwe.

But for now, its future remains uncertain-clouded by politics, corruption, and a lack of transparency.

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NBM’s Corporate Manager Akossa  cherishes PRSM award

By Christian Mwase, Contributor

BLANTYRE-(MaraviPost)-National Bank of Malawi (NBM) plc’s Marketing and Corporate Affairs Manager, Akossa Hiwa, has described her recognition as Public Relations Practitioner of the Year (Corporate Sector) by the Public Relations Society of Malawi (PRSM) as a profound honour and a defining reflection of the Bank’s marketing evolution.

Hiwa said in an interview that the accolade symbolizes three critical milestones—the demonstration of an excellent brand and communications strategy at the highest levels of NBM plc’s Marketing Function, collaborative and remarkable execution by the marketing and creative teams she leads, and most importantly, the strategic positioning of marketing as a leadership function within the Bank—empowered with the creative room to drive measurable brand impact.

“This recognition is not just about individual effort; it is about a team that consistently shows up with excellence and passion. It represents a well-thought-out brand and communications strategy, brilliantly executed by an exceptional team, and the deliberate elevation of Marketing as a strategic voice in shaping the Bank’s growth story,” said Hiwa.

Hiwa—who received the award at the PRSM Annual Awards Gala held in Mzuzu last week—was also recently named PR Personality of the Year at the Institute of Marketing in Malawi (IMM) Excellence Awards in Salima, making this her second national accolade within a fortnight.

She attributed the win to NBM plc’s culture of trust and empowerment, noting that the executive management’s confidence in the Marketing and Corporate Affairs function enables innovation and bold execution.

“We are privileged to work in an environment that trusts and challenges us to think creatively, stay accountable, and deliver impactful outcomes aligned with the Bank’s values and strategic intent,” said Hiwa.

Acknowledging the stiff competition this year, Hiwa extended her congratulations to all the winners and applauded all nominees across categories for raising the bar in Malawi’s PR and communications industry.

“The competition was incredibly strong—so many institutions have delivered remarkable campaigns in 2025. I sincerely congratulate all the winners and salute everyone who was nominated. Each of you has contributed to elevating the standard of professional communications in Malawi,” she said.

Reflecting on her journey, Hiwa expressed deep gratitude, describing the moment as one of humility, renewal, and purpose.

“Every recognition is a reminder that our story is still unfolding, guided by grace, teamwork, and an unwavering belief in the power of communication to build trust and inspire action,” she said.

Chief Judge of the PRSM Awards Committee, George Mindano, said Hiwa’s selection was based on her demonstration of exceptional commercial PR strategy, creativity, and measurable impact.

“The winner of this year’s PR Practitioner of the Year – Corporate Sector is someone who has led multiple innovative, high-impact PR campaigns with a clear link to business outcomes. Her ability to integrate strategy, influencer storytelling, and media synergy made her institution a household name—especially through the groundbreaking K1.5 billion sports sponsorship campaign,” said Mindano before announcing Hiwa as the winner.

Hiwa faced stiff competition from Levie Nkunika and Lorraine Chikhula, both of FDH Bank.

Her win not only cements her place among Malawi’s leading communications professionals but also reinforces the growing influence of marketing leadership in driving corporate transformation and national brand excellence.

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Zambia’s law on former presidents: A democratic safeguard or a tool for political exclusion?

….From Kenneth Kaunda and Frederick Chiluba to Edgar Lungu, Zambia’s constitutional restrictions on former presidents continue to fuel debate over whether the law promotes democracy or undermines it.

LUSAKA-(MaraviPost)-The death of former Zambian President Edgar Chagwa Lungu in June 2025 has reignited a complex and emotional debate about the rights and restrictions placed on former heads of state.

At the center of this conversation lies a controversial law that bars former presidents from engaging in active politics if they wish to continue receiving state benefits.

This issue transcends Lungu’s personal legacy. It touches on fundamental questions about Zambia’s constitutional values, its democratic maturity, and whether such restrictions serve national unity or political suppression.

Who Was Edgar Chagwa Lungu?

Edgar Chagwa Lungu was born on November 11, 1956, in Ndola, in Zambia’s Copperbelt Province. He studied law at the University of Zambia (UNZA), graduating in 1981, and later served in the Ministry of Justice before moving into private legal practice.

Before politics, Lungu briefly trained with the Zambian Army, though he was discharged before completing his service. His legal background shaped his calm and disciplined leadership style, often described by both supporters and critics as cautious and reserved.

Lungu’s political rise began within the Patriotic Front (PF) under Michael Sata, who founded the party in 2001. He steadily rose through the ranks, serving as Minister of Home Affairs, Minister of Defence, and Minister of Justice during Sata’s administration.

Following President Sata’s death in October 2014, Lungu became the PF’s candidate in the January 2015 presidential by-election, narrowly defeating Hakainde Hichilema. He was re-elected in 2016 after another tight contest, again against Hichilema.

As president, Lungu presided over an ambitious infrastructure drive, building roads, bridges, and energy projects. However, his administration was marred by accusations of corruption, rising debt, media suppression, and shrinking civic space. Many Zambians saw his government as drifting toward authoritarianism.

Lungu’s presidency ended in August 2021, when he lost to Hichilema in an election that marked a peaceful transition of power. After his defeat, Lungu announced his retirement, making him eligible for state benefits under the Benefits of Former Presidents Act.

However, in 2023, he made a dramatic return to active politics — a move that sparked fierce debate and legal disputes over whether he had forfeited his benefits. His death in June 2025 left unresolved questions about his legacy, his treatment by the state, and Zambia’s broader handling of former leaders.

The Law That Sparked the Debate

The Benefits of Former Presidents Act (Chapter 15 of the Laws of Zambia) provides former heads of state with pensions, housing, transport, security, and diplomatic privileges. Yet, it imposes one crucial condition: a former president forfeits all benefits if they re-enter active politics.

The Act defines “active politics” as performing any act that shows intent to seek elective or appointive office or holding a position in any political organization. This clause, meant to preserve political stability, has become a source of division and suspicion.

In theory, it promotes a dignified retirement for former presidents, discouraging them from interfering with their successors. In practice, however, it has often been used to sideline political opponents and curtail legitimate participation in national affairs.

Historical Roots of Restrictive Politics

To understand how Zambia arrived here, one must revisit its political past.

After leading Zambia to independence in 1964, Dr. Kenneth Kaunda of the United National Independence Party (UNIP) ruled for nearly three decades under a one-party system. His long tenure ended in 1991 when Frederick Chiluba’s Movement for Multiparty Democracy (MMD) ushered in a new democratic era.

However, in 1996, the Chiluba government amended the constitution, introducing a clause that required both parents of a presidential candidate to be Zambian by birth — a move widely viewed as targeting Kaunda, whose parents were from Malawi.

That episode set a precedent: Zambia’s constitutional and legislative reforms could be weaponized to exclude political rivals. What began as an attempt to manage transitions of power evolved into a tool for controlling who could participate in politics.

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Decades later, Edgar Lungu found himself facing similar exclusionary tactics. When he re-entered politics in 2023, the government quickly reminded him of the constitutional conditions tied to his benefits.

His public activities — from church visits to morning jogs with supporters — were portrayed by state officials as political rallies in disguise. Critics accused the government of using the law selectively to punish Lungu for remaining politically relevant.

This selective enforcement exposes the ambiguity of Zambia’s constitutional framework. The term “active politics” remains loosely defined, allowing ruling administrations to interpret it based on convenience and political expediency.

Democratic Justifications and Their Limits

Supporters of the law argue that it is a democratic safeguard. They say it prevents political interference, protects peaceful transitions of power, and ensures that ex-presidents retire gracefully without undermining sitting leaders.

They further argue that offering benefits in exchange for political neutrality is a fair compromise that preserves respect for the presidency and prevents destabilizing power struggles.

However, critics counter that the law is a violation of basic democratic rights. It effectively punishes former presidents for exercising their constitutional freedoms of speech and association. In doing so, it creates a double standard — one law for ordinary citizens and another for former leaders.

For many observers, this law reflects a pattern of institutional manipulation in Zambian politics — where legal instruments are designed to consolidate power rather than foster accountability and inclusivity.

Democracy or Political Control?

The real danger lies not in the law’s existence but in its implementation. If applied selectively, it becomes a political weapon used to silence dissent. A law intended to protect democracy ends up undermining it.

During Lungu’s final years, the tension between the PF and the ruling United Party for National Development (UPND) deepened. His supporters claimed he was being persecuted, while government officials maintained they were merely enforcing the law.

The spectacle raised broader questions: Should a democratic state police the public behavior of a former president? And can democracy truly thrive where the right to political participation is conditional?

Reforming the Law for a New Era

To safeguard democracy, Zambia must strike a balance between respecting former leaders and protecting political freedom.

First, the definition of “active politics” must be clarified to eliminate ambiguity and prevent abuse. The law should only restrict the holding of active office, not general participation in civic life or public discourse.

Second, the application of the law must be consistent, transparent, and free from political interference. Selective enforcement erodes public trust and discredits the justice system.

Third, Zambia should encourage a culture of inclusivity and respect toward former leaders. Rather than viewing them as threats, the nation should harness their experience for mediation, mentorship, and national unity.

Finally, any future constitutional reforms should be conducted through a broad national dialogue, involving citizens, civil society, and opposition parties — not as executive decrees serving those in power.

Conclusion

Zambia’s law barring former presidents from active politics in exchange for state benefits represents both a safeguard and a snare. It upholds the principle of peaceful succession but, in practice, has often been wielded as a political weapon.

Edgar Lungu’s life and death underscore the contradictions at the heart of this legal framework. He was both a beneficiary and a victim of Zambia’s constitutional order — a man whose political journey mirrored the nation’s struggle between freedom and control.

As Zambia reflects on his legacy, it must also confront its own constitutional conscience. True democracy cannot exist where participation is policed, and dissent is punished.

If Zambia truly aspires to be a beacon of democracy in Africa, it must reform its laws to ensure that all citizens — including former presidents — can speak, participate, and contribute freely to the nation’s progress.

Only then will the promise of freedom, won at independence and defended across generations, be truly fulfilled.

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Kylie Jenner Pranks Her Family Members on Khloé Kardashian’s Podcast

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FCB donates MK5 million towards ICTAM AGM

BLANTYRE-(MaraviPost)-Listed First Capital Bank (FCB) has donated MK5 million to the ICT Association of Malawi (ICTAM) towards the its upcoming Annual General Meeting (AGM) and conference.

The AGM is scheduled to take place from November 19 to 25 in Mangochi, under the theme ‘AI for Sustainable Development: Advancing the Digital Future.’

Speaking during the cheque presentation ceremony in Blantyre on Wednesday, FCB’s Head of Information Technology, Tiyanjane Nyirenda, said the Bank’s contribution reflects its commitment to promoting innovation and digital transformation in Malawi.

“The ICTAM annual conference is a platform that brings together technology leaders, innovators, and enthusiasts to share ideas. This year’s theme aligns well with our focus on innovation and artificial intelligence, hence our support,” said Nyirenda.

He further expressed optimism that the AGM will help strengthen integrity and professionalism within Malawi’s ICT sector.

“We expect that this year’s conference will drive more innovation in the country. With startups showcasing their projects, the platform will help inspire and boost local technological advancements,” he added.

In his remarks, ICTAM Vice President Moses Dossi Jnr. hailed FCB for the donation, noting that the support will go a long way in helping the association successfully host the event.

“FCB has been a long-term partner, and we truly appreciate their continued support. This contribution will help us achieve our goal of making this year’s AGM impactful,” said Dossi.

He added that the theme underscores the importance of embracing artificial intelligence for Malawi’s digital future.

“If we don’t think about AI now, we risk being left behind. This conference allows us to discuss how best we can position Malawi for a sustainable digital future,” he said.

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Zachery Ty Bryan Allegedly Punched Girlfriend, Threatened to Kill Her

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Fischer Kondowe demands transparency from FCB Nyasa Big Bullets over his dismissal

….Former Bullets winger accuses the club of misleading the public and calls for the truth to be revealed.

BLANTYRE-(MaraviPost)-Former FCB Nyasa Big Bullets assistant coach and club legend Fischer “Jahman” Kondowe has called on the club’s management to come out clearly and explain the real reasons behind his dismissal.

Speaking in reaction to the club’s official statement announcing his removal, Kondowe said the reasons given to the public were misleading and unfair.

“I have deliberately kept quiet and chosen not to speak about my dismissal,” said Kondowe.

“But when the club starts telling lies to the Malawian people, that becomes a very big mistake,” he added.

The outspoken former winger took issue with Bullets Chief Administrative Officer Albert Chigoga, who earlier told the media that the club chose not to disclose details of Kondowe’s dismissal out of respect for him as a club veteran.

Kondowe dismissed Chigoga’s remarks as false and disrespectful, insisting that the explanation given was far from the truth.

“What Chigoga said about keeping the reasons private out of respect for me is a lie,” Kondowe declared.

“He should withdraw that statement and tell the Malawian people and all Bullets supporters the truth,” he emphasized.

Bullets on Tuesday confirmed Kondowe’s dismissal in an official statement shared across its platforms, but the announcement did not specify the grounds for his termination.

The development has sparked mixed reactions among supporters, with some calling for transparency and others urging the club to handle the matter internally.

As of now, efforts to get a comment from Albert Chigoga on Kondowe’s accusations have been unsuccessful.

Fischer Kondowe, who enjoyed a long and decorated playing career with the People’s Team, remains a respected figure among fans, and his removal from the coaching staff has stirred significant public interest.

The latest fallout adds to growing tension within the club’s technical ranks, with many observers urging FCB Nyasa Big Bullets to address the matter openly to maintain trust and unity among supporters.

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Most Shocking Revelations From Heather Gay’s Mormon Docuseries

Heather Gay dove deep into the dark side of Mormon life in her new docuseries, Surviving Mormonism.

Fans of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City are likely familiar with Heather’s experience with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Since leaving the church behind, she’s shared her own stories on TV and in her books, Bad Mormon and Good Time Girl, and has spoken openly about some of the institution’s shortcomings.

In her Surviving Mormonism, available to stream on Peacock, the reality star admitted she didn’t expect to become “the public voice of Mormon critical thought.”

“Being forced to leave my faith and talk about it publicly shaped who I became,” she continued. “That’s been both incredibly transformative, but also it’s been really hard.”

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Heather explained that she wanted to use her platform to make a difference. “There’s just an endless sea of people who have been hurt by the church, and no one’s done anything about it,” she said in the first episode. “What fascinates me is the church’s ability to get away with it and for everyone that speaks out against it to just end up screaming into the void.”

Throughout the docuseries, Heather was introduced to other former Mormons who survived alleged sexual abuse, homophobia and other controversial practices that seemingly go against the church’s “image of inclusivity, acceptance [and] love.”

“If the Mormon church wasn’t f***ed up, I would have stayed,” Heather admitted.

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Gay Conversion Therapy

Heather met with David Mathison, who she described as being “one of the pioneers of the gay conversion therapy movement” within the Mormon world. David led a conversion program called Evergreen, but he eventually came out as gay himself and became an outspoken critic of the Mormon church.

“The guy that was teaching conversion therapy for and on behalf of the church was actually gay all along?” Heather remarked, recalling that she had friends growing up who “suffered from same sex attraction,” as LDS followers would say.

David noted that his family went back “several generations” in Mormonism and was taught to believe being gay was “unnatural” and “disgusting.” He was 23 years old when he “admitted” his sexuality to himself.

“I get married. [My bishop said], ‘You probably don’t need to tell her about the same sex attraction because it’s probably just gonna go away,’” David recalled. “He says, ‘Don’t worry about it, that’ll go away when you start having normal sex.’ … A year later, I’m like, ‘It didn’t go away.’”

When David confessed his feelings to his wife, she “cried” and told him they could still “make it work.” After Evergreen was founded, the couple became David and his wife “became the poster couple for mixed orientation marriage.”

Heather brought up rumors that the Evergreen “retreats” were spaces for men to hook up, but David claimed he never experienced anything like that. “Did that stuff happen? I’m sure,” he added.

Heather’s Divorce

Heather referred to herself as a “cradle Mormon,” meaning she was raised in the religion since birth. The Mormon belief in family shaped Heather’s vision for her own future.

“The second I met someone that was willing, I knew that I had the capacity to make any marriage work because I loved God, I loved being Mormon, I was good at being Mormon,” she told the cameras. “But I was very, very wrong.”

Heather was married to ex-husband Bill for more than a decade before their 2011 separation. The couple, who share three daughters, finalized their divorce in 2014.

“About three days into my marriage, I realized that we were fiercely, deeply incompatible,” she confessed. “I thought he was marrying me for all the reasons he wasn’t, and I was marrying him for all the reasons he did not want to be a husband.”

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Abuse in the Church

During the second episode, Heather spoke with Ben, the partner of a close friend, who had been “really traumatized and abused” while growing up in the Mormon church. “I remember hearing it and just not wanting to hear it,” Heather admitted of first learning about Ben’s experience.

Ben acknowledged that “it’s difficult” to reckon with what he went through. He went on to reveal that he was 4 years old when he started being sexually abused by a man named Jess. “It lasted until I was 9,” he continued. “The first time I remember being abused, I remember being in my Sunday school class and a man coming in and getting me and another girl and taking us to a field by the church. And I can just remember his face being right there above mine.”

Overcome with emotion, Ben alleged he was sometimes abused alone and sometimes “with other kids.” Ben explained that he kept the abuse quiet, believing he “had committed sin that was next to murder” by having sex. “And then being taught by my abusers that if I were to speak out, I would get excommunicated,” he added.

Ben recalled another instance where Jess gave him “a Sunday school lesson” about marriage involving a 12-year-old girl. “She had a veil pulled over [her face] … and he married her. And then said, ‘This is what we do after we get married,’ and he raped her,” Ben claimed.

While there were no consequences for Jess from the church — despite the abuse being reported — another alleged victim filed a lawsuit in 2017. According to the docuseries, the lawsuit was settled. By 2019, Jess was excommunicated from the Mormon church.

Following her conversation with Ben, Heather realized the same thing “could have happened to thousands of children” who grew up Mormon. “I think we are trained to just look the other way,” she admitted.

Heather later sat down with sisters Jennie and Lizzy, who were abused by their father. “My dad himself told me he always knew he would abuse his child if he had a daughter. He never went for help … he just hoped he would never have the opportunity,” Lizzy claimed. “He used the church’s teachings as a way to make the abuse normal.”

Despite multiple reports to the church and an excommunication, police weren’t involved. Lizzy and Jenny’s mother was “counseled” to stay in the marriage. Eventually, Lizzy filed a police report. Her father was sentenced to 32 years in prison.

“For 21 years, people knew what this man was doing,” Heather said, wiping her eyes. “Bishops, stake presidents, men that know better. You told one detective and he was arrested within six months.”

Calls From the Bishop

Heather remembered being “called in” to her bishop “all the time” as a teenager because he had “this spiritual impression” that Heather was masturbating, which would go against their beliefs.

“Even though I was in a closed room with a 50-year-old man, my dad’s best friend, directly asking me about masturbating,” Heather recalled, “I made a choice right then and there to not feel weird about it and not make him creepy. Because that’s the last thing I wanted.”

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The Floodlit Database

During a conversation with a former bishop named Nick, Heather learned about a platform called Floodlit. “I thought it was some program the church had instituted in order to keep track of sexual predators within the church and to keep their members safe. And I thought, ‘Wow, how progressive,’” Heather said as she scrolled the website.

She soon realized her assumption was wrong. Floodlit is an independent site, with Nick noting that it lists members of the church who have been convicted of different “forms of pedophilia.”

“I didn’t have any idea that abuse was so prevalent in the church. I heard about stories, but never in numbers like this,” she said.

Nick further opened up to Heather about his decision to step down from his bishop role, saying, “I saw things that [made me think], ‘This is happening? What?’ Eye-opening on a number of levels … It just didn’t sit well with me.”

Being in a Cult

In episode 3, Heather shared how her views on Mormon life “shifted” after speaking to fellow survivors. “I’m terrified of the word ‘cult,’” she admitted. “If we could have a conversation around cult techniques and cult behavior and if it didn’t eradicate the beautiful parts of my childhood and the wonderful things my parents did for me, I would just say it easily.”

Heather continued through tears, “My parents were in a cult. They raised our entire family in this cult. And it’s really, really, really hard to get out of. It doesn’t mean that my childhood was tainted or that my parents were bad people or that my family didn’t have real love or real experiences, but I was raised in a cult.”

Heather added that she hoped to shine a light on the experiences of others. “Giving victims a platform and an opportunity to tell their stories is, I think, the biggest act of resistance that you can do,” she said. “These stories should be heard. And the church is never gonna hear them, but the world can.”

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