Kwara, Kogi attacks terrorist plots to destabilise Nigeria – Afenifere

Afenifere, a pan- Yoruba socio-political, has described the recent attacks on communities in Kwara and Kogi states as an attempt to destabilise the country, by people it described as territorial expansionists, terrorists, and disgruntled elements.

The group, in a statement, Friday, raised concern in a statement, signed by its National Publicity Secretary, Jare Ajayi, in Ibadan, Oyo State, condoled with Kogi and Kwara, over the calamities, including a recent boat mishap and flooding incidents.

The group maintained that the sacking of communities in Kwara and Kogi, as well as other parts of the Middle Belt, were grim reminders that terrorism in those areas posed serious threats to the South-West and the entire country, it therefore, expressed ‘deep sympathy’ over the boat mishaps and flood disasters that occurred in the two states recently.

‘The method of operation of the terrorists in Kwara went beyond those who are kidnapping for ransom or are just interested in finding fodder for their livestock.

‘The types of weapons they use, the derring-do manner with which they attack and the intensity of the damage they cause clearly indicate that they have very powerful people sponsoring them both locally and internationally.

‘The usage of the adjective ‘very’ here was deliberate with a view to underlining the deep involvement of powerful interests locally and internationally in the life-taking experiences we are having presently. So-called ‘illegal miners’ etc. could be suspected here,’ said Afenifere.

Afenifere further decried the invasion of Kwara communities, where lives were lost, properties destroyed, and socio-economic activities disrupted. ‘However, those supporting, collaborating and sponsoring the evil doers need to remember that when the country is destabilised, they are not going to be immune. What is happening in Afghanistan presently and what has been happening since the unwarranted ouster and murder of Muammar Ghadaffi of Libya should serve as lessons.

‘It is on record that since Ghadaffi was ousted, Libya has not known peace. As for Afghanistan, it is as though the government of that country wants to strip Afghan women and girls of their rights to those things that are basic to human existence – education, work, freedom of movement and participation in public life.

‘From August 2021, when Taliban took over government in that country, it has come up with over 70 decrees violating the rights of girls and women, especially their right to education, according to Ms. Audrey Azoulay, Director-General of United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organisation.’

One woman can’t sustain a man’s passion – Delta billionaire who just married 19th wife

For Chief Jite Tesigimoje, polygamy is not a lifestyle of excess; it is, in his words, a practical truth of human nature. His household is a microcosm of Nigeria’s diversity. He is married to women from nearly all the major ethnic groups-Igbo, Yoruba, Bini, Ijaw, Fulani, Urhobo, Isoko, and his own Itsekiri. To him, it is a reflection of unity and inclusiveness.

‘Every man wants to marry two or three wives if he has the capacity,’ he said without hesitation.

‘The reality is this: after a few years of marriage, a man begins to see his wife differently. He sees her naked from time to time-when she is going into the bathroom and when she comes out and perfects her beauty routines.

‘Familiarity sets in, passion fades, and intimacy becomes more like a duty. That is why you hear women complain their husbands no longer love them like before when they just got married.

‘It is not that the love is gone; it is that desire has been dulled by routine.’

He advised couples in monogamous relationships to live apart. ‘If they cannot afford different apartments, they should live in separate rooms.’

He gestured towards one of his wives who sat beside him throughout the conversation, saying: ‘She is listening and smiling. She knows what I am saying is true.

‘She is stunningly beautiful, just like the others. But if she were the only woman in my house, things would be different.

‘Men don’t talk about this openly, but I will. No matter how beautiful a woman is, one woman alone cannot sustain a man’s passion forever.’

His argument is not a dismissal of women but a critique of Western ideals. ‘Our colonial masters told us monogamy is the best way of life. Yet those same people are caught daily in scandals, with mistresses, colleagues, even staff members.

‘Why sneak around? Why live in lies? If you admire another woman, marry her. That is better than deceit.’

Tradition and the role of privacy

Chief Tesigimoje links his views not only to personal experience but also to cultural tradition. ‘In our culture, there is mystery between husband and wife,’ he explained.

‘When you share the same room, wake up and see everything about your wife every single day, where is the excitement?

‘When you start to see her as a sibling, that spark is gone. And incest, as our tradition teaches, is a taboo.

‘So why push a man into a life where his wife feels like a sister? Distance and privacy keep the love alive.’

This is where polygamy, in his view, plays a balancing role. ‘When a man has two or three wives, he creates space. He comes to each one renewed, excited, and appreciative. That freshness keeps love burning.

‘I can tell you confidently that many women in polygamous homes are more sexually satisfied than their monogamous counterparts.

‘But let us continue to deceive ourselves and build up angry and frustrated women, which will eventually lead to more divorces.’

The demands of a polygamous household

Though he champions polygamy, Tesigimoje admits that marrying more than one wife is not meant for everyone. ‘Polygamy is cheap only in theory. In reality, it requires enormous financial strength and emotional intelligence.

‘It would be suicidal for someone to dabble into polygamy simply because he sees someone else, or because I am doing well in it. You must ask yourself some questions, and one of those is: are you capable?’

Providing insight into the enormous cost he bears in keeping everyone happy and comfortable, Tesigimoje said: ‘In Lagos, I live in Eko Atlantic City and have 15 houses. Each of my wives lives in a five-bedroom duplex, and they all receive hefty allowances and other perks regularly.

‘That is why, when I am in Warri, we can all stay together under one roof peacefully, with some of the wives sharing rooms without any grudges.’

He reiterated that fairness and equity are the backbone of his successful management of his home. ‘Once I do something for one wife, everyone must get the same treatment. Whether you are the youngest, the oldest, or yet to have any child, you get your due.

‘Let me give you an example: yesterday (a day before the interview), I sent some of my wives ?250,000 each for outings with their children.

‘Within minutes, every one of them had heard about it. Those who didn’t get theirs called me to demand answers.

‘I got calls from Abuja and Lagos, while those who were in Warri and yet to get their alerts stormed into my room. They had already heard!

‘Before the day ended, I spent about ?3 million on ice cream. That is polygamy. You cannot afford to neglect anyone.’

Honesty, keyUnitunity in the home

Contrary to outsiders’ assumptions, the billionaire business mogul revealed that his household thrives on cooperation, not rivalry.

‘At my last wedding, all my wives came dressed in the same attire. They danced, they laughed, and they welcomed the new bride. Can you imagine that?

‘If there wasn’t unity, they would not have been there, smiling.

‘People often think polygamy breeds jealousy, but if you are honest from the start, your home can be harmonious.

‘So, even in sharing my bed, my wives are cooperative.

‘There is an order as to who comes into the master’s bedroom, but the cooperation of the women makes it even more seamless.’

While hinting at wife No. 20 soon, he warned men against deception. ‘Do not promise a woman or give her the impression that she will be the only one if you plan otherwise.

‘If your heart is set on five or six wives, say it from the start. Once she accepts, she will be at peace with it.

‘Problems only come when men pretend. My wives know that I love women, and this (19th wife) might not be the last.’

Strength, fitness and tradition in coping with the demands of 19 wives

Asked how he manages the physical and emotional energy required for such a large family, the billionaire laughed heartily. ‘Sex is the best exercise-better than any gym. It keeps blood flowing, strengthens the body, and prolongs life.

‘Western diets and drugs weaken men. In our tradition, we have herbs that keep a man virile all his life, no matter how long he lives.

‘My father is almost 90, and he recently impregnated two women. Virility runs in the family, and I rely on our roots to keep me strong.

‘Having many wives and failing to satisfy them would be an abomination.

‘Those who have tried my roots and herbs, including traditional leaders and friends, can confirm that I have some of the best herbal roots in the land (laughs).’

Beyond family: A heart for humanity

Despite his colorful personal life, Tesigimoje insists his legacy must be measured not only by his marriages but also by his enormous philanthropy. He recently launched the GIM Brown Foundation to streamline his charitable activities, which escalated during the COVID-19 pandemic.

During the lockdown, he supported widows, orphans, persons with disabilities, and other vulnerable groups. Today, more than 800 widows are on his payroll, as well as hundreds of other PWDs.

‘Everything I have is by God’s grace, not my strength. How do I repay Him? I can only do that by helping those who are less fortunate.

‘My advice to wealthy Nigerians is: if you have the capacity to uplift others, do not hold back, because the government alone cannot solve the myriad of problems in our society.’

As for his community of Ajudaibo, Escravos, he revealed his plan to kick off an 83-suite hotel, as part of his drive to bring development and opportunity home.

‘I love my wives, my children, and my people.

‘This is the life I have chosen. It is not for every man. It requires honesty, responsibility, and strength.

‘But with God’s grace, I have managed it. And I will continue to use what I have, not just for my family, but for my community and for humanity.’

Skitmaker Kasala named ambassador of Ondo College

Popular skitmaker, Adeoye Isiah Ojewumi, better known as Kasala, has been unveiled as the new brand ambassador for Margaret Mosunmola College of Health Science and Technology, Owo, Ondo State.

The appointment, announced at the institution’s campus in Owo, is part of efforts by the management to deepen engagement with young Nigerians and promote health education through creative platforms.

Kasala, who has built a massive following online with his comic skits, expressed excitement at the recognition.

‘This is more than just an endorsement for me; it’s an opportunity to use my influence to inspire young people,’ he said. ‘Health is wealth, and I believe combining entertainment with education is one of the most powerful ways to reach the next generation. I’m proud to be associated with an institution that is shaping future health professionals.’

Speaking on the choice of Kasala, the Provost of the college, Dr. Oyegoke Temidayo Isaac, described the entertainer as a perfect fit for the school’s vision.

Seyi Shay shocks fans with Illuminati confession

Singer and songwriter Seyi Shay has stirred reactions after disclosing that she was once a member of the Illuminati.

The revelation came during her appearance on the OffAir Podcast with Gbemi and Toolz, where the ‘Right Now’ crooner openly admitted to joining the controversial group.

‘That’s when I was in the Illuminati. That’s when I joined the Illuminati,’ she said, sparking wide conversations online.

Seyi Shay added that contrary to popular belief, it is not fans who know the most about such affiliations but insiders in the entertainment industry, suggesting that much goes on behind the scenes that the public may not be aware of.

Her comments quickly went viral, drawing mixed responses. While some listeners doubted her claim, others applauded her for speaking candidly about a topic often wrapped in secrecy and conspiracy theories.

Clips of the interview have been widely circulated on social media but the full context of her statements has yet to be released.

Inside Ado-Ekiti’s prostitution market

A black Lexus RX 350 screeched to a halt in Adebayo Area of Ado-Ekiti, the Ekiti State capital. Its tinted windows slid down and six ladies in skimpy dresses rushed forward. After a brief negotiation, two of them ‘jumped’ into the car’s back seat, and it sped off.

For the passersby, it was just another fleeting moment. But for those familiar with Ado-Ekiti at nightfall, it was another window into a world where prostitution no longer hides in the shadow but flourishes in the open.

From Adebayo to Ajilosun, Bank Road to NTA Road, and into the brothels of Odo-Ado, Isato-Isale and Oke Bola, young ladies stand at the centre of prostitution that now defines Ado-Ekiti’s nightlife.

Ladies in early twenties emerge from the shadow corners with short dresses and stand in clusters waiting for clients. They lean on parked cars, shift weight from one leg to another, and scan the road with sharp eyes.

Each headlight beam is a possible transaction. Their main clients are internet fraudsters, the so-called Yahoo boys, who dominate the city’s nightlife with flashy cars, music and reckless spending.

Female students of tertiary institutions struggling to make ends meet or seduced by the lure of fast money, also join the trade. Some of the ladies operate discreetly, arranging meetings through WhatsApp groups. Others work through bar owners, hotel managers or informal networks of pimps who take a cut of their fees.

Rates range between N20,000 for short time to N100,000 for trips outside the state.

Between 9pm and 10pm, Adebayo one of the busiest nightlife hubs, bursts into spectacle. Convoys of exotic cars pull up outside hotels and lounges and men in expensive gold chains and wristwatches storm in as they order for bottles of Azul and Hennessy.

Sex workers, popularly called ‘Olosho’, swarm their tables like bees.

On the streets, the trade is visible. Young women in high-heeled shoes negotiate loudly on phone calls or disappear into cars with clients.

In brothels, the transactions are more structured. In one brothel at Odo-Ado, this reporter observed more than a dozen women sitting on plastic chairs, waiting for patronage. The negotiation process was brisk. A man would arrive, point to his choice, whisper a few words, and disappear into a small room with her.

At roadside lounges, the scene is similar. The smell of grilled suya mixes with that of cigarette smoke as men sip bottles of red wine and beer and DJ spun different Afrobeats tracks.

Beyond the open bar, women linger by hotel gates, their short dresses shimmering under fluorescent light. A smile becomes an advert and a wave is an invitation.

By morning, the same women retreat into normal lives. On the streets, they were indistinguishable from students rushing to lectures, traders arranging their wares, or apprentices heading to the workshop.

But when night falls again, they return to the streets aggressively searching for ‘daily bread’.

Our correspondent went undercover not only to the streets but also into hotels with three different sex workers on three different nights.

Each encounter was staged, not for sex, but for conversation, giving them the chance to tell their stories. The young ladies attempted to seduce the reporter, mistaking the purpose of the meeting. One sat on the reporter’s lap, another tugged at his shirt with smiles. But in each case, the urge was resisted even though their fees were paid in full..

The first encounter was at a hotel in Adebayo area. A 21-year-old Sussy (not her real name) from Auchi, Edo State was quick to settle into the room and ask for her fee. When told the arrangement was only for conversation, she looked puzzled, then sat on the edge of the bed and relaxed.

A 300-level student of Ekiti State University (EKSU), she said it was financial hardship that forced her into the trade. She said she turned to prostitution after her father lost his job and her mother’s petty business could no longer sustain the family and meet the demands of tuition, hostel rent, and books.

She explained that she first ventured into what she called ‘runs’ in her first year, when family support dwindled to almost nothing.

‘I was not comfortable at first,’ she said, tracing a circle on the tabletop with her finger. ‘But My friend told me how she managed.

‘One night, I tried it and it really helped. Now it has become a routine’, she added.

Sussy, at one point, drew closer to the reporter and eased herself onto his lap before she was gently asked to return to her seat. She obeyed without protest, but the gesture carried the heaviness of routine. She gave a half-smile, almost bitter, and shrugged.

She admitted thst most of her clients are Yahoo Boys (internet fraudsters). ‘Ordinary students cannot afford us. They spend freely, even pay for trips outside the state,’ she said.

For Sussy, prostitution is less a choice and more about survival borne out of the arithmetic of hardship and the urgency of need.

In front of KSSD Hotel along NTA Road, Ado-Ekiti, another young lady in her early twenties, caught the reporter’s attention. Slender with a golden ankle chain and scarlet lipstick, Kaffy stood under a street light. Approached by the reporter, she wasted no time on pleasantries. ‘Short time is N20,000; full night, N40,000. No reduction,’ she said with a tone of finality.

She agreed to a short-time arrangement and followed the reporter to a nearby hotel. Inside the small room, she laughed when asked if stigma ever bothered her.

‘Stigma doesn’t feed anyone,’ she said, revealing that she had a child to care for. ‘The father is not there, but the child must eat,’ she said.

‘Yahoo Boys pay well, though they can be rough. Sometimes they want two or three girls at once. We take the risk because the money is there.’

As the conversation continued, Kaffy tugged at the reporters’ long sleeves before she was told that the night was only for conversation. She shook her head and gave a smile.

‘You’re different. Most men say that and change their minds later,’ she said.

Her fee was paid in full via transfer and she left with a mix of gratitude and disbelief.

At a brothel in Isato-Isale, rainbow bulbs flickered above the entrance. Inside, the narrow hallways reeked alcohol and cigarette smoke. Women lounged in doorways, waiting for potential clients.

At the brothel, this reporter met a young lady who introduced herself as Sandra, saying she had worked there for seven years. She insisted the conversation must take place inside her room for her to talk.

Inside her small room, the air was warm. A tired electric ceiling fan barely stirred the curtains. A single bed lay in a corner with a mosquito net tied to one side. Sandra poured a gin into two small glass cups and offered one to the reporter, which he politely turned down.

She explained that going into prostitution was not a sudden decision but an outcome outcome of pressures that left her with no choice.

According to her, her mother’s roadside stall barely brought in enough to survive, and when she gave birth, the weight of responsibility grew heavier. The child’s father, she said, disappeared soon after, leaving her with no support.

She added that sex work presented itself as the only option that could produce money that matched her responsibilities.

‘You think of other things but hunger doesn’t wait. School fees don’t wait. A child crying at night for food doesn’t wait’, she said.

On another night at Cozy Lounge along Ado-Iworoko Road, two young ladies sat side by side. They sipped a sachet alcohol carefully in order not to ‘dull the moment’ or their senses. The music from speakers rattled the bottles before them, reducing conversation to quick whispers and nods.

A moment later, a pot-bellied man in his fifties eased into the empty chair beside them. He leaned close and spoke into their ears over the noise. The discussion was brief and punctuated by laughter from the two women. Minutes later, they left their chairs, tugging at their dresses as they followed him.

At PDF Arena Lounge beside First Bank in Adebayo Area, a young lady named Ifedolapo stirs the ice in her glass. Slim and neatly braided, her voice is soft.

‘This is not the life I want. I am only managing. My dream is to own a boutique. If I can save enough, I will stop,’ she said.

At a popular brothel in Oke Bola, beside Ifa Chapel, a woman in her forties, who introduced herself as Mama T, disclosed that she had been in the ‘runs business’ for nearly a decade; a path she said was never her choice but became a necessity after her marriage collapsed.

‘I am a mother of three and my children must eat, school fees must be paid. That is why I continued.

‘I have been to Lagos, Ibadan, Port Harcourt and Akure for this business. Everywhere it’s the same story. Men are looking for pleasure, women are only looking for ways to survive.’

She admitted the work is dangerous. ‘It is not an easy life. Sometimes you meet a good client who will pay well. Other times, you face insults and violence. But at the end of the day, you return because the children depend on you. There is no other choice.’

Our correspondent observed that by 2am, the frenzy began to wane. Some women hung outside lounges and hotels, their eyes heavy with fatigue. For those who could secure clients, it was a night wasted. For others, the money paid for the services they rendered meant a cashout for survival.

First Lady reaffirms maternal health as core of Renewed Hope Agenda

First Lady Oluremi Tinubu yesterday re-emphasised that no Nigerian mother should lose her life while giving birth, as she commissioned two major health facilities in Gombe State.

Speaking at the inauguration of the 100-bed Senator Oluremi Tinubu Maternal and Child Specialist Hospital, the First Lady described healthcare – particularly maternal and child health – as central to the Renewed Hope Agenda of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s administration.

According to a statement issued by her Senior Special Assistant on Media, Busola Kukoyi, the First Lady said ‘the commissioning of this hospital is not just the unveiling of a building; it is the opening of doors to life, to hope, and to a healthier future for our mothers and our children.

‘Healthcare, especially maternal and child health, is at the heart of the Renewed Hope Agenda of His Excellency, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR, which seeks to ensure that every Nigerian child has a healthy start in life, and that no mother dies while birthing life’, Mrs. Tinubu declared.

She commended the Office of Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) for building the hospital, noting that the facility would significantly help reduce maternal and infant mortality while bringing relief to families in Gombe and neighboring states.

‘It is my belief that this facility will provide quality healthcare services, reduce maternal and infant mortality, and bring relief to families in Gombe State and beyond,’ the First Lady said, while urging medical professionals, community leaders, and citizens to ensure the facility serves its purpose with excellence, compassion, and integrity.

In addition to the specialist hospital, Senator Tinubu also commissioned the ultra-modern New College of Nursing and Midwifery, Gombe, where she interacted with enthusiastic students who expressed gratitude for her visit.

The First Lady’s engagements in Gombe form part of her ongoing nationwide advocacy for improved healthcare and education under the Renewed Hope Agenda.

She has since returned to Abuja after her two-day official visit to the state.

Bandits kill, abduct many in Zamfara

Bandits killed and abducted many residents of Zamfara on Friday evening.

They also blocked Mayanchi – Anka road in Zamfara where they carried out their enterprise.

One of the motorists that escaped the roadblock Malam Muhammad Ahmad said the bandits were heavily armed.

‘The bandits blocked us on the road and kidnapped many people, some of us scattered and ran into the bushes. Those that escaped among us were those that run into bushes where long crops were planted,’ Ahmad said.

‘My colleague Abubakar Lawali Sardauna was killed because he refused to be abducted saying that, he will not follow the bandits to the bush,’ he added.

Efforts to reach Zamfara Police spokesman, DSP Yazid Abubakar were not successful.

Gas turbines: Diri assures on 24 hour power as Bayelsa celebrates 29 years of statehood

Bayelsa Governor, Senator Douye Diri, has said the procurement of a 60-megawatt gas turbine by his administration was a milestone worth celebrating by the state as it turned 29 on October 1, 2025.

Governor Diri also stated that when fully installed, it would not only guarantee 24-hour power supply in the state but would also create jobs and stimulate economic growth.

Diri stated this in a statewide broadcast on the twin occasion of Nigeria’s 65th Independence and Bayelsa’s 29th statehood anniversary on October 1, 2025.

While congratulating Nigeria’s leader, President Bola Tinubu, as well as the people of the country and Bayelsa on the anniversary celebrations, Governor Diri expressed the hope of better days ahead.

According to him, his Assured Prosperity administration continues to progress with landmark projects, including the nine-storey state secretariat complex that would provide efficient administrative space for public servants.

Senator Diri equally stated that the ongoing construction of the 25,000-capacity stadium would foster youth development as the facility would inspire young people and showcase Bayelsa on a larger scale.

He said: ‘The recent arrival of the 60-megawatt gas turbines marks a major milestone and brings us much closer to reliable, round-the-clock power in our state. That development will reduce household expenses, attract investment, create jobs and stimulate economic growth.

‘Work is also progressing well on other landmark projects. The nine-storey State Secretariat complex is advancing steadily and will provide modern, efficient administrative space for our public servants and the people they serve. To foster sports and youth development, we are building a 25,000-capacity, Olympic-standard stadium – a facility that will inspire our young people and showcase Bayelsa on the national and international stage.

On development in the education sector, he said the state had recorded significant progress in academic performance and infrastructure upgrade.

‘Our schools are improving. Recent NECO results have shown strong performances by our students, with Bayelsa among the top five states in Nigeria. To deepen pragmatic education, we have established science, technical and vocational colleges in every local government area.

‘The ones at Ayamasa, Ofoni, Swali, Sampou and Opume have been completed and functional while others are nearing completion in Brass, Igbeta-Ewoma and Oporoma.’

Walking into an ambush

They have started again. They are busy backslapping themselves as if the points deduction translates to getting the Group C’s 2026 World Cup qualification ticket. Nigeria’s game against Lesotho will be taking place in the next four days, precisely next Friday in Durban, a South African city, with no counter plans to ensure that fans depart the country to support the Super Eagles. They have forgotten that the bad blood arising from the three points’ deduction would play a definitive role in the outcome of the penultimate game between Lesotho in Durban.

In their wild jubilations, it is important to remind our football chieftains that the South Africans are planning to appeal the deduction of three points and three goals from Bafana Bafana’s hitherto 17 points tally to its 14 points, which will see them to the second position in Group C’s World Cup qualification table. Trust our federation chiefs to wave off any fruitful results from SAFA’s protest without critically perusing its contents to the letter. Getting lawyers to advise them on the appeal’s merits won’t be a bad idea. Certainly not in our administrators’ character. What would shock you would be the laughable undercurrents employed by many of them to get FIFA to take a decision which the South Africans are saying was taken by one member rather than by the disciplinary committee. Isn’t this a likely case of walking into an ambush?

SAFA members, in an official letter, have said they were disappointed with the decision and will launch a formal appeal within the next 10 days stipulated by the FIFA disciplinary rules.

‘As SAFA, we are deeply disappointed with this unprecedented outcome noting, that it was delivered by a single-member panel without reasons, and without affording the association an opportunity to present legal arguments,’ read the official response in part.

‘The association confirms that we have requested written reasons for the judgment and intend to lodge a formal appeal with the FIFA Appeals Committee within the prescribed 10-day period under the disciplinary rules.

Could it be true that only one FIFA member decided the decision to deduct three points and three goals from Bafana Bafana’s hitherto 17 points instead of the disciplinary committee members as required? Are the South Africans saying that they ought to have been asked to defend themselves for an issue expressly stated in the rulebook by FIFA? Of course, these posers by South Africans and many others to be submitted in their must be completed in the next 10 days.

The pertinent question to ask FIFA chiefs would be if the appeal would be dealt with quickly, such that it doesn’t set the stage where the Group’s decider would be played on different dates and not simultaneously as stipulated on such matters for fairness?

Bafana Bafana will face Zimbabwe for the crucial 2026 FIFA World Cup qualifier at Moses Mabhida Stadium in Durban on October 10. The Peter Mokaba Stadium in Polokwane, South Africa, will host the 2026 World Cup qualifying clash between Lesotho and Nigeria’s Super Eagles, also on October 10. The other poser would be which of the two matches in Durban and Polokwane would the South Africans want to watch? Isn’t this where the Super Eagles would be walking into an ambush in Polokwane with South Africans trooping out in their numbers to root for Lesotho?

With exactly six days to the October 10 clash against Lesotho, it is quite refreshing to note that Osimhen will be playing the two matches. Super Eagles have tottered in all the matches that Osimhen was missing. It easily explains why we are in this precarious level where every second in the last two qualifiers could bring celebrations or grief, depending on our players’ attitude in the course of the two games.

One would have thought that after missing the Qatar 2022 World Cup, our football chieftains, the players, coaches, and the sports commission members would have learned their lesson. Not so here.

Grapevine news around sports, especially in the football circle, is filled with tales that Nigeria’s Vice President Kashim Shettima Mustapha is the reason Golden Eaglets’ Coach Manu Garba wasn’t sacked after a shambolic outing with the team last year. I have chosen to bring it to Shettima’s notice because he is too busy to be identified with the dubious acts of idle people around the beautiful game.

The more ridiculous thing about this nauseating tale is that Garba didn’t do well again with the Golden Eaglets this year. One would have thought the NFF chieftains would have sponsored Garba to yearly coaching clinics to brush up his knowledge of the game since he guided Nigeria to lift the FIFA U-17 World Cup diadem in 2013, which is what other soccer climes’ administrators do when such feats are achieved.

In football-efficient countries, the FA members would have kept the winning coaching team of Garba, Emmanuel Amunike, and Nduka Ugbade intact and make sure that they upgrade their knowledge yearly, especially when Amunike and Ugbade guided another crop of brilliant Golden Eaglets players to retain the FIFA U-17 World Cup in 2015.

Rather than smear the Vice President’s name with this mess, talebearers should persuade their trumpeters of falsehood to assemble Amunike and Ugbade to start the process of assembling a new set of Golden Eaglets for next year, while Garba is sent on a two-year course to update his rustic soccer tactics.

The Vice President is too civilised, focused, and busy with other national issues to be involved in such dubious tendencies of encouraging failures to remain in positions that require qualified coaches, in this instance. Those dropping the name of the Vice President should back off! A coach is as good as his last game. Indeed, there are two types of coaches. Those waiting to be sacked and those already sacked.

The period between now and 2013 is 12 years. Only remedial courses and upgrading of coaching licenses can make a football coach be in sync with the new trends of coaching that are always dynamic. In fact, in 2013, Ugbade and Amunike functioned as assistant coaches to Garba. Need I mention what Amunike received from reputable European managers during his soccer career, including being crowned the Africa Footballer of the Year? Recall that it was Amunike’s nifty chip in the Atlanta’96 Olympic Games’ soccer finals that gave Nigeria the 3-2 victory and gold medal. He also scored a goal at the 1994 World Cup, including other feats. It is also on record that Amunike has attended several coaching seminars, clinics, and has functioned in different Technical Committees for FIFA and CAF.

Ugbade was captain of the Nigeria U-16 male soccer team that won the 1985 FIFA U-16 World Cup in China, beating Germany 2-0, with the intercontinental ballistic missile (apologies to the late commentator Ernest Okonkwo) shot from the left foot of Victor Igbinoba being the second goal. Ugbade was also a member of The Miracle of Dammam team, the name given to the result of a quarter-final football match between the Nigerian U-20 football team and the USSR U-20 football team at the 1989 FIFA World Youth Championship in Saudi Arabia in which the Nigerian team came back from four goals down to level up and go on to win on penalties. No disrespect to Garba’s records as a player. Indeed, being a great player doesn’t translate to being a successful coach.

Postpartum depression: What every husband should know

Bringing a baby into the world is beautiful, but let’s be honest, it can also be overwhelming. Sleepless nights, new routines, and the pressure to ‘get it right’ can take a toll on both parents. What many people don’t talk about enough is postpartum depression (PPD), and the truth is: your wife might not just be ‘tired.’ She might be struggling with something deeper.

As a husband, knowing what to look out for, and how to show up, can make all the difference.

What Is postpartum depression?

Postpartum depression is more than mood swings or the so-called ‘baby blues.’ It’s a serious condition that can affect how your wife feels, thinks, and bonds with the baby. It usually shows up within the first few weeks after delivery, but sometimes it comes months later.

Signs to watch out for:

Persistent sadness or hopelessness

Irritability or unexplained anger

Loss of interest in things she used to enjoy

Trouble bonding with the baby

Extreme fatigue or changes in sleep and appetite

Thoughts of guilt, worthlessness, or being a ‘bad mother’

Why husbands matter

Here’s the part many men miss: you play a central role in her healing. Your support, patience, and understanding can ease her load more than you realize.

How you can help

Listen Without Judging: Sometimes, she just wants to talk. You don’t need to fix everything, just be present.

Step In at Home: Diaper duty, late-night feeding, helping with chores, these small acts are big gestures. They show her she’s not alone.

Encourage Rest; Gently insist she takes breaks, naps, or even short walks. Rest is fuel.

Normalise seeking help: Therapy or professional care isn’t a weakness. Encourage her to talk to a doctor if symptoms persist

Take Care of Yourself Too

Supporting her is easier if you’re also physically and mentally okay. Don’t neglect your own health.

The Nigerian reality

In many Nigerian homes, conversations about mental health are still whispered. Cultural expectations often tell women to ‘endure’ or ‘pray it away.’ While faith and prayer are important, they don’t replace emotional care. As her husband, you can break that silence and lead with compassion.

Final Note

Postpartum depression doesn’t mean your wife is weak or failing. It means she’s human. And your role isn’t just to provide? it’s to partner. If you step in with empathy and patience, you create the space for her healing, for your baby’s growth, and for your family’s peace.