The 2018 sacrifice: How Sanwo-Olu brought an unfinished story into 2027 polls

Some political decisions acquire their full meaning only years after they are made. Others return at unexpected moments to illuminate the relationships, calculations and compromises that shaped an earlier generation of leadership.

Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu reached back eight years at the unveiling of Dr. Obafemi Hamzat’s governorship manifesto on Friday, October 30, and retrieved one such decision from the political history of Lagos State.

It concerned September 2018, when the APC governorship contest had thrown up several aspirants, including the then incumbent, Akinwunmi Ambode, Sanwo-Olu and Hamzat.

Hamzat was not an accidental entrant. He had served in the administrations of Bola Tinubu and Babatunde Fashola, acquired experience across significant government ministries and built his own political relationships.

He had prepared to contest the governorship primary. Then, on September 29, 2018, he announced his withdrawal and endorsed Sanwo-Olu. The decision changed the configuration of the contest ahead of the primary in which Sanwo-Olu would confront Ambode.

What remained less clearly articulated in the public record was the full extent of the political conversations behind Hamzat’s decision.

Sanwo-Olu supplied his own account on Friday. ‘Then the leaders of our party asked him to step aside for me.’ The brevity of that statement gave it unusual weight.

For the governor, the central issue was not merely the withdrawal itself, which had been publicly reported at the time, but the personal cost of abandoning an ambition after years of preparation.

He recalled how Hamzat accepted the decision, supported his candidature and subsequently agreed to serve as his running mate.

That second decision was formalised on November 4, 2018, when the Lagos APC presented Hamzat as Sanwo-Olu’s deputy governorship candidate.

There is an important historical distinction here. Hamzat’s withdrawal was not simply a private favour whose meaning can be established by the beneficiary alone.

At the time, Hamzat publicly justified his action by reference to consultations, political counsel and his confidence in Sanwo-Olu. Friday’s speech added the governor’s perspective to that existing record.

It was nevertheless an instructive disclosure because of what followed.

The 2018 political arrangement became a governing partnership in May 2019. Seven years later, Sanwo-Olu was standing before party leaders and Lagos residents to explain why his former rival and longstanding deputy had become the candidate seeking to succeed him.

There was a circular quality to the moment: the man who stepped aside in 2018 had returned as the governorship candidate in 2026, with the man who benefited from that decision now offering a public account of their shared history.

But it would be too convenient to reduce the development to a story of sacrifice eventually rewarded.

Political ambition cannot be suspended indefinitely on the assumption of future compensation. Neither does an earlier concession confer an automatic right to public office.

The governorship of Lagos belongs to its electorate, not to a private understanding between two politicians. The more significant aspect of Sanwo-Olu’s recollection was therefore his description of what happened between the concession and the new candidature.

According to him, Hamzat did not allow the disappointment of 2018 to define their working relationship. He neither became a troublesome deputy nor pursued a competing political agenda within the administration.

Sanwo-Olu’s observation that they had maintained one government and one direction was intended to present the relationship as an example of political accommodation surviving the pressures of office.

That is relevant in a country where disagreements between governors and their deputies have periodically produced impeachment proceedings, factional conflicts and institutional instability.

For Lagos, the recollection also raises questions about the relationship between loyalty and leadership. Loyalty can preserve stability, but it cannot substitute for independent judgement.

A successful governorship requires more than the capacity to work harmoniously with a predecessor. It demands responsibility for decisions that may differ from the preferences of those who assisted a candidate’s rise.

That distinction will become increasingly relevant as Hamzat explains his own proposals. What Sanwo-Olu achieved through the recollection was to give the 2027 campaign a historical starting point that predates the manifesto and even the present administration.

He demonstrated that the relationship being presented to Lagosians was not suddenly assembled for electoral convenience. It had passed through competition, concession, political collaboration and the practical experience of government.

There is also a lesson for posterity in the governor’s decision to speak publicly about the episode. Political transitions are often documented through official announcements, with little acknowledgement of the human decisions that made them possible.

By recalling September 2018, Sanwo-Olu placed one such decision into the public conversation. Whether that history ultimately influences the electorate is a separate question.

What is established is that the narrative of Hamzat’s candidature now includes an important earlier chapter, told by a principal actor and open to examination alongside the contemporary record.

Kaduna guber: PDP members in Soba LGA endorse Gov Sani

Members of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in Soba Local Government Area of Kaduna have declared their support for Governor Uba Sani ahead of the 2027 governorship election, citing the construction of roads in their communities.

The PDP members in Soba LGA said they would support the governor at the polls despite their membership of the opposition party, arguing that his performance in infrastructure development had earned him their backing.

The Co-ordinator of PDP in the area, Adamu Danburam, said he and hundreds of their members would vote for Uba Sani because the governor had done for his community what the PDP had failed to do.

‘I am a staunch PDP member, but for us, politics is about individuals. Although we belong to the PDP, I will vote for Uba Sani because he has done for me what the PDP could not do.

‘Even as a PDP coordinator in my area, I will vote for Uba Sani because we have resolved to vote for someone who knows our community and has done something to improve our lives. I support him because he has constructed a road for us,’ he said.

Danburam also prayed for the governor to complete his tenure successfully, adding that residents hoped he would address other challenges facing their communities if re-elected.

He specifically appealed to the governor to provide a hospital, electricity, and clean drinking water for Birnin Da’a village.

Another PDP member, Dogara Mohammed, said he had never changed political parties but would vote for the All Progressives Congress (APC) in the 2027 election because of the road constructed through his community.

‘Everybody knows that I have never changed political parties, but this time, I will vote for the APC because of the road he constructed through our town.

‘The road will benefit many people, including future generations. It will also help many people across the country, especially those who use it to travel,’ he said.

Mohammed added that the residents intended to reward the governor for the project through their votes.

Similarly, Hassan Adamu Abdullahi said the poor condition of roads had previously made it difficult for farmers to transport their produce to markets in Soba and other locations, particularly during the rainy season.

‘Before the road was constructed, we faced serious difficulties because of the poor road network. It was difficult to transport our farm produce to markets, especially during the rainy season.

‘But now, Governor Uba Sani has constructed a road linking Gurundafi, Soba and Turawa. We can reach our destinations easily within a few minutes. We are truly grateful,’ he said.

The residents described the road project as an intervention that would improve transportation, ease the movement of farm produce and support economic activities in their communities.

The Kaduna State Government has also constructed roads in other parts of the state, including a 15-kilometre road linking Kasuwar Magani to Wusar in Kajuru Local Government Area and a 23-kilometre road linking Madaci to Madakiya and extending to Kafanchan in Jema’a Local Government Area of Southern Kaduna.

Sultan confers ‘Kuliyan Sokoto’ title on ex-JAMB registrar

Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar III, has conferred the traditional title of Kuliyan Sokoto on the immediate past Registrar of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB), Professor Is-haq Oloyede, in recognition of his contributions to education, Islamic affairs and national development.

The turbaning ceremony took place on Sunday at the Sultan’s Palace in Sokoto, while a reception was held at the Command Guest House, attracting prominent Nigerians, traditional rulers, government officials, academics and religious leaders from different parts of the country.

Speaking shortly after receiving the title, Oloyede described the honour as a special blessing from Almighty Allah, saying it represented a combination of his religious, traditional and personal aspirations.

He said the recognition was particularly significant because he was a Yoruba man from Egbaland being honoured by the Sultanate of Sokoto.

‘Alhamdulillah. My description of today is to thank Almighty Allah for this honour because it is three in one. I am a Muslim by faith, and I am a Yoruba man from Egbaland. This title combines my aspirations because we Yoruba people value chieftaincy,’ he said.

Oloyede explained that the title was not merely a traditional honour but also carried religious responsibilities, particularly because it was conferred by the Sultan, who is the President-General of the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs.

‘It is not just a traditional title; it is also a religious duty. To say you are Kuliyan Sokoto is enough for anybody who has achieved something in life. You do not need to look for any other traditional title anywhere,’ he said.

He expressed gratitude to the Sultan for finding him worthy of the recognition, admitting that he did not consider himself deserving of the honour.

‘I do not think ordinarily I deserve it. But in his wisdom, he decided to give me this honour. I appreciate him, and I have not taken it for granted. I thank him, the government and the people of Sokoto,’ he added.

The former JAMB registrar also acknowledged the goodwill message from the Alake of Egbaland, Oba Adedotun Aremu Gbadebo, saying it made him feel proud of his roots.

In the goodwill message delivered on behalf of the Alake by retired Navy Captain AbdulRasheed Adisa Raji, the monarch described Oloyede’s recognition as a testament to his integrity, scholarship and distinguished public service.

He recalled Oloyede’s achievements as the eighth Vice-Chancellor of the University of Ilorin and his transformative leadership at JAMB, where he introduced reforms that strengthened transparency and accountability in the admission process.

The Alake said the honour demonstrated that hard work, honesty and selfless service transcended geographical and cultural boundaries.

Also speaking at the ceremony, Professor Yusuf Ali ( SAN) commended the Sultan for recognising Oloyede, describing the conferment as a demonstration of the monarch’s commitment to national integration.

He said the recognition of a Yoruba man by the Sokoto Caliphate showed that Nigerians could rise above ethnic and regional differences to promote common interests.

‘This recognition has shown that we can unite for noble causes as a people and as a nation. It has shown that there are no boundaries in brotherhood and friendship and that we can rise above our base sentiments to act and work as Nigerians,’ he said.

He described Oloyede as a nationalist whose record of service and commitment to truth had earned him the recognition.

He added that the new title would make the former JAMB registrar an ambassador of the Sokoto Caliphate, enabling him to project its positive values wherever he went.

Similarly, Ambassador Sharafa Tunji Ishola, OFR, said the title reflected the Sultanate’s recognition of Oloyede’s knowledge of Islamic jurisprudence and contributions to national development.

Ishola recalled his achievements as Vice-Chancellor of the University of Ilorin, particularly his efforts in improving the institution’s academic standing, as well as his reforms at JAMB.

He said the Sultan expected Oloyede to bring the same commitment and dedication to the Sokoto Caliphate.

‘As the Sultan said, the essence of the title is that we have seen what you have done for Nigeria, and we want you to come and do something similar for us in this emirate,’ he said.

He described Oloyede as an honest and knowledgeable individual who stood for justice and fairness, expressing confidence that he would fulfil the responsibilities attached to the title.

The current JAMB Registrar, Professor Segun Aina, also congratulated Oloyede on behalf of the board, describing the recognition as a source of pride to the JAMB family.

Aina said the honour demonstrated that Oloyede’s contributions to national development were appreciated beyond his immediate professional and geographical environment.

‘On behalf of the JAMB family, I would like to warmly congratulate you on this honour. It speaks volumes that we have left Ilorin, Egbaland, Bwari and Abuja, and you are being celebrated and honoured here in Sokoto,’ he said.

He described Oloyede as a father and mentor to many, praying that Almighty Allah would continue to guide and strengthen him in his service to the country.

In his welcome address on behalf of the Oloyede family, Professor Abdulkarim Oloyede described the title as an Amanah, meaning a sacred trust, rooted in the values of wisdom, learning, integrity and service associated with the Sokoto Caliphate.

He expressed the family’s appreciation to the Sultan, the Sokoto Sultanate Council, the state government and the people of Sokoto for the honour and hospitality extended to them.

The family prayed that Almighty Allah would grant the new Kuliyan Sokoto good health, long life and wisdom to discharge the responsibilities attached to the title.

The ceremony brought together prominent personalities from the North and South, highlighting the role of traditional institutions in promoting national unity, religious harmony and peaceful coexistence.

Troops rescue 11 kidnap victims, stop terrorist ambush in Kebbi

Troops of the Joint Task Force, North West, Operation FANSAN YAMMA, have rescued eleven kidnapped victims in two separate operations in Danko-Wasagu Local Government Area of Kebbi State.

A statement by the Acting Media Information Officer, Captain Tamuno Sinivie, says the operations, conducted on October 30 and 31, also involved foiling a terrorist attack and repelling an ambush.

In the first operation, troops responded to a distress call over an attempted invasion of Ribah town by suspected terrorists who had blocked the Ribah-Dirindaji road.

The attackers fled with seven persons but released them following a military pursuit towards Rambo village. The victims have since been reunited with their families.

In a separate operation, troops on patrol in the Wasagu-Falfala area came under terrorist ambush but fought back, forcing the attackers to flee.

It further discloses that a search of the area led to the rescue of four kidnapped victims abandoned by the terrorists. They were subsequently handed over to the village head.

It adds that troops remain committed to protecting residents and urges the public to provide credible information to support security operations.

CAN raises concern over reported conviction of Christian woman in Borno

THE Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) has expressed concern over the reported conviction and imprisonment of a Christian woman, identified as Lami Samuel Dawa, in Borno State.

CAN said the circumstances surrounding the conviction, particularly reports that the case arose from the conversion of an adult woman to Christianity, had raised serious questions about the protection of religious freedom and fundamental human rights in the country.

The association, however, said it was still verifying the precise facts and legal basis of the conviction.

In a press statement issued on Saturday and signed by its President, Archbishop Daniel Okoh, CAN disclosed that an appeal had already been filed, adding that it was committed to allowing the judicial process to run its course.

The association stressed that every Nigerian had the constitutional right to freely choose, change or practise their religion or belief without coercion, intimidation or unlawful punishment.

It called on the relevant authorities to ensure that the rights of all parties involved in the case were protected and that justice was served in accordance with the Constitution and the laws of the country.

‘Nevertheless, the case raises important questions about the protection of religious freedom and the fundamental rights guaranteed under the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria,’ the statement said.

CAN further disclosed that it would continue to monitor developments surrounding the case and engage relevant authorities through appropriate legal and institutional channels.

Reaffirming its commitment to religious tolerance and peaceful coexistence, the association said it remained dedicated to protecting the fundamental rights and freedoms of every Nigerian, irrespective of religious background.

The development comes amid renewed concerns over the protection of religious freedom and the rights of citizens to practise their faith in different parts of the country.

Kano guber: Why NDC’s Gwarzo is absent from updated list – INEC

Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has clarified that it has no objection to the candidacy of the Nigeria Democratic Congress (NDC) governorship candidate in Kano, Abdulsalam Gwarzo, saying his absence from the updated list of candidates is due to a subsisting court order.

A senior official of the commission disclosed that Gwarzo had been cleared by INEC, but his name could not be published pending the final determination of an ex parte order issued by the Federal High Court in Kano on October 27.

The official explained that the court had directed the commission not to publish the names of candidates presented by the NDC until the matter was determined.

‘I thought I told you he had been cleared, subject only to the final outcome of an ex parte order by a Federal High Court in Kano on October 27 that we should not download the name of any candidate for NDC,’ the official said.

The clarification followed concerns over the continued omission of Gwarzo and his running mate, Rabiu Mustapha, from INEC’s updated list of governorship and deputy governorship candidates for the 2027 elections.

In the updated list, the commission indicated ‘Court Order’ against the NDC’s governorship and deputy governorship positions in Kano State.

Gwarzo’s omission had raised questions about the status of his candidacy,

particularly after INEC announced that it had reviewed petitions arising from the omission of some candidates from its initial list published on October 10.

On Thursday, the commission upheld 66 petitions and rejected 64 others relating to governorship and State Houses of Assembly candidates across the country.

Among those whose candidacies were cleared was former Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Professor Isa Ali Pantami, whose name was subsequently included in the list as the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) governorship candidate in Gombe State.

However, INEC’s latest clarification indicates that Gwarzo’s absence from the updated list should not be interpreted as a rejection of his candidacy, but rather as compliance with the subsisting court order.

The publication of the NDC’s governorship and deputy governorship candidates in Kano will therefore depend on the final determination of the court proceedings.

The drive home

It was on the news again, about how after a game, inside the family car, the father offered a critique about his son’s performance. When the father later watched the video that his other son discreetly took, he cringed and wished he could take back what he said.

Two decades ago, when my eldest son took up football, and five years later, my youngest son, basketball, I chose not to sit behind the players’ bench or even say anything on the ride home.

I wondered at times how I could balance being ‘a father-coach’ who dissected the game with their kids and their performance and just being supportive. To this day, I wondered if I should have pushed my kids more or just be glad that I supported them.

I played varsity sports during my school days. I was good but I could have been better had I had the right environment to grow into. I was inconsistent with my academic performance and that created all sorts of problems about reliability. Furthermore, my parents were vociferous in being against my playing sports (I should just concentrate on my schooling).

There were several incidents that helped me formulate that cool and not being overbearing approach.

First was while watching a football match, a batchmate of mine who was a multi-sport star in school, was constantly yelling at his son during the football match. At half-time, the son didn’t immediately join the team huddle but straight to his father. The coach and the other teammates-including all parents-were looking. My batchmate proceeded to scold him in front of everyone.

His team won the championship, but following the match, the way the kid trudged off the field, it was like they lost.

That remains an indelible memory to this day.

Another was this kid who was a star in high school but found it hard to play meaningful minutes or even put up stellar statistics with the college squad. Perhaps, the father thought his son would go to the Philippine Basketball Association and with every poor game, that ambition or dream, was slipping away.

It was the same thing. He would ride his son until the latter ‘gave up.’ The son landed a spot in a Mythical Selection for a postseason tournament, and it was surmised he would finally see extended minutes and even be the star for the next season. He surprised everyone when he forewent his final playing year.

When my youngest son was playing, I knew it bugged him and his teammates that they were ordered to pass the ball to the team’s star who was already being recruited to transfer to another high school team playing in the top league in the country.

I always tell my sons to follow their coaches. When you do something, and you do it right, and you worked doubly, triply hard so hopefully, the coach could-and emphasis on could-cut you slack and give you the opportunity. Just don’t ask for it. There will always be someone else watching to maybe even give you that break.

My youngest is pretty good. In high school, he was close to six-feet tall (he is about 6’2′ now), could block shots, rebound, and hit the outside shot. In fact, even if he didn’t play for a big program, he was offered two scholarships to the Team B of two big programs. And that proved my point.

Of course, that will not happen to everyone, but still, I believe you are forming a foundation and giving them backbone to help them for the rest of their life.

This formed the foundation of my working with high school and college student-athletes either as a mentor or their consultant/manager. I always encouraged my children and the kids I worked with but always put them in terms they could understand. The decision on what to do was always dependent on them.

Now, they might have not been mature enough to understand or even make decisions at that time, I doubly made sure they and their parents understood the situation while planning for worst case scenarios.

Again, I wondered if I should have pushed the way other parents who were stars during their school days. I guess there is nothing wrong with that. It worked out for others, some, not.

My answer to that was the love for the game should always win out. A desire to get better no matter the odds.

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That drive home was also a huge lesson for me to rein in my thoughts and my mouth when emotions were raw. It taught me that timing is everything, and sometimes, a fatherly hug and pat on the shoulder, then good food will go a long way in soothing nerves.

That is why to this day, my kids and I can talk about music, pop culture, and even social concerns because I never needled them.

And yes, we still take that drive home together.

Falana requests prosecution of Sowore’s attackers in Ado-Ekiti

A Lagos-based human rights lawyer and Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), Femi Falana, on Sunday charged the Ekiti State Police Command to immediately arrest and prosecute the suspected thugs who attacked the presidential candidate of the African Action Congress (AAC), Omoyele Sowore, in Ado-Ekiti.

The SAN equally urged the Ekiti State Ministry of Justice to take over the prosecution of two suspects, Joseph Rotimi Olabiowonu, popularly known as Metilo, and Opeyemi Adedoyin, who are accused of abducting and assaulting Sunday Ogunsakin, leading to his death.

Falana made the request in a statement on Sunday while expressing sadness over what he described as the growing incidence of political violence, thuggery and unlawful killings in Ekiti State.

While recalling past incidents of political violence in the state, the human rights crusader referenced the alleged killings of Dr Ayo Daramola, Tunde Omojola and Engr Kehinde Fasuba by a notorious killer squad allegedly operating because of political differences.

Falana maintained that the criminal gang also threatened the lives of other prominent indigenes of the state, just as he noted that although suspects were arrested and charged with the murders before the Ekiti State High Court, the cases were allegedly compromised by powerful political interests.

The senior lawyer stated that the failure to ensure justice in those cases had contributed to the persistence of political thuggery and unlawful killings in the state.

Falana equally recounted the circumstances surrounding the death of Sunday Ogunsakin following an alleged attack on 14 September 2026.

The SAN alleged that Olabiowonu, a former chairman of the Road Transport Employers Association of Nigeria (RTEAN), and Adedoyin invaded Ogunsakin’s residence in Afao-Ekiti over a land dispute.

According to the human rights lawyer, the victim was abducted and severely assaulted before the suspects allegedly pushed him out of a moving vehicle, causing serious head injuries.

‘Ogunsakin was subsequently rushed to the Ekiti State University Teaching Hospital (EKSUTH), where he was pronounced dead.

‘The two suspects were arrested and investigated by the Ekiti State Police Command under Commissioner of Police Michael Falade before being arraigned before a Magistrates’ Court in Ado-Ekiti,’ he said.

Falana commended the magistrate for ordering their remand in a correctional facility pending legal advice from the state Attorney-General, despite alleged pressure from powerful interests.

Falana further urged the state Ministry of Justice to take over the case involving Olabiowonu and Adedoyin and ensure that they are charged before the High Court for alleged abduction, torture and murder.

Tanzania eyes low-cost cold rooms in produce markets to boost farm income

Rombo. The government is considering constructing cold rooms in produce markets across the country using simple, cost-effective technology to reduce post-harvest losses and improve farmers’ productivity, Agriculture Minister Daniel Chongolo has said.

He said the facilities would help preserve perishable produce, including bananas, fruits and vegetables, giving farmers more time to find markets instead of suffering losses when their crops spoil before marketing.

Mr Chongolo made the remarks on Saturday, October 31, 2026, while inspecting the construction of the new Mamsera Market in Rombo District, Kilimanjaro Region, a project costing more than Sh700 million.

‘We are exploring how to construct cold rooms in our markets using simple technology that improves farmers’ productivity and delivers good results. This will allow bananas showing signs of spoilage to be stored safely,’ he said.

‘The goal is to prevent post-harvest losses. We know that when a banana tree is planted and nurtured until it produces fruit, losing the harvest means wasting all the time invested. We do not want such losses; we want to achieve 100 percent productivity,’ he said.

He added that the government was committed to improving market infrastructure to ensure farmers had reliable outlets for their produce and earned incomes that reflected their production costs.

‘The government’s goal is to promote productive agriculture and create an environment in which farmers benefit. Increased agricultural productivity should also translate into higher incomes for farmers,’ said Mr Chongolo.

In another directive, Mr Chongolo instructed the Ministry of Agriculture’s Deputy Permanent Secretary responsible for Crop Development and Food Security, Prof Peter Msofe, to ensure the Mamsera Market was completed before December 23 this year.

‘My instruction to the Deputy Permanent Secretary is that when I return here on December 23, I should be inaugurating this market. Do everything possible to ensure the work is completed on time,’ he insisted.

‘When the government allocates funds to achieve results, failure to manage them properly amounts to letting it down. We must ensure that every assignment delivers the expected results and productivity,’ he said.

He stressed that the project should address the needs of farmers and traders in Mamsera and Rombo generally to ensure the market provided services that met the requirements of the agricultural produce trade.

Regarding the Holili International Grain Market, located along the Tanzania-Kenya border, Mr Chongolo directed Prof Msofe to ensure the contractor mobilised to the site by April 2027 so that construction could begin as scheduled.

‘Let me assure you that we will construct this market. I want the Deputy Permanent Secretary to ensure that by April next year, the contractor has moved to the site so that construction can begin. We have the capacity, commitment and plans to build it. What remains is to implement those plans and achieve the intended results,’ he said.

He further directed that the market’s design should include space for a small fruit and vegetable market, enabling traders visiting to purchase grain and other produce to access a wider range of goods in one location.

He said the arrangement would broaden business opportunities and make it easier for buyers transporting produce to destinations within and outside the country to access different commodities.

For his part, Rombo MP and Minister for Education, Science and Technology, Prof Adolf Mkenda, said establishing a produce market in Holili would give farmers access to external markets, including Kenya and other countries, where they could secure better prices.

He said he wanted the market to become an international trading hub for fruits and vegetables, particularly bananas, which are produced in large quantities in Rombo District.

‘Tanzanian bananas are sold in Dubai. We want someone with an acre of banana farms here in Rombo to harvest successfully, have the bananas transported to Dubai and an Arab consumer enjoy them, while a Tanzanian earns dollars,’ said Prof Mkenda.

He also urged the ministry to ensure the Holili market had cold-storage facilities, particularly for bananas and vegetables, with separate sections for dry produce and commodities requiring refrigeration.

He said the facilities would help farmers increase their incomes, achieve economic independence and expand markets for their produce.

Prof Msofe said construction of Mamsera Market, which would cost more than Sh700 million, had reached 70 percent completion.

He said the market was expected to improve access to reliable markets for banana and avocado farmers, increase the incomes of farmers and traders and strengthen agricultural produce trade in the area.

A trader and farmer in the district, Ms Jenifa Audiface, said the lack of cold-storage facilities had forced farmers to sell their produce at low prices to avoid losses caused by spoilage.

‘This challenge particularly affects banana, avocado and vegetable farmers, who are forced to find buyers soon after harvesting because they have no safe storage facilities where they can keep their produce while waiting for better market prices,’ she said.

Another farmer, Mr Edwin Mlay, said establishing cold-storage facilities at Mamsera and Holili markets would benefit farmers and traders by allowing them to store their produce for appropriate periods, reduce post-harvest losses and improve their chances of securing buyers locally and internationally.

When ‘Should’ becomes a burden: Learning to let go of unrealistic expectations

I should have known better.’ ‘I should be further ahead by now.’ ‘I should be stronger.’ ‘I should not feel this way.’ ‘I should have handled it differently.’ How often do these words appear in your thoughts? How often do you look back at a situation and tell yourself what you should have done, or look at your present life and feel you ought to be somewhere else by now?

Sometimes, the word ‘should’ sounds harmless. It can even motivate us to take responsibility, set goals and make improvements. However, when it becomes a constant voice telling us how we must behave, where we ought to be in life and what we should have done differently, it can become a heavy burden. Instead of helping us grow, it can leave us feeling guilty, frustrated and perpetually dissatisfied with ourselves.

Psychologists refer to this pattern as *should statements*, a cognitive distortion that occurs when we hold rigid expectations about how we, other people or situations must be. We tell ourselves that we should never make mistakes, should always be productive, should always be happy or should have everything figured out by a certain age. We may also expect our partners to know exactly what we need without being told, our children to behave perfectly or our careers to progress according to a particular timetable. The problem is not the word itself. The problem begins when our expectations leave little or no room for reality.

Life does not always cooperate with our ‘shoulds’. Sometimes, we can do everything right and still experience disappointment. We can work hard and still need more time to achieve our goals. We can love someone deeply and still misunderstand each other. We can prepare carefully and still encounter unexpected difficulties. We can even have a difficult day without having done anything wrong. Yet, when our expectations become rigid, we may interpret these ordinary experiences as evidence that we have failed.

Imagine someone in their thirties who believes, ‘By now, I should have achieved everything I wanted.’ They look around and see friends buying houses, advancing in their careers, getting married or starting families. Gradually, their attention shifts from what they have achieved to everything they believe is missing. They begin to feel inadequate, as though life has passed them by. But who decided where they were supposed to be at that particular age? While it is natural to have ambitions, life does not come with one universal timetable. People begin from different circumstances, encounter different opportunities and face challenges that others may never see. Comparing our lives with someone else’s milestones can make us overlook the progress we have made on our own journey.

This thinking pattern can also affect how we respond to our emotions. We tell ourselves, ‘I should not be anxious,’ ‘I should not be sad,’ or ‘I should be over this by now.’ In doing so, we add another layer of distress to what we are already experiencing. We are no longer dealing only with sadness, anxiety or disappointment; we are also judging ourselves for feeling that way. We become distressed about being distressed. Instead of allowing ourselves to understand what we feel and what might be contributing to it, we begin to treat our emotions as personal weaknesses that must be eliminated immediately.

There is another side to this thinking trap. Sometimes, we use ‘should’ to judge other people. We think, ‘They should know better,’ ‘They should have called,’ ‘They should understand how I feel,’ or ‘They should behave the way I expect.’ When people fail to meet these expectations, disappointment can quickly turn into anger, resentment or conflict. Of course, there are situations where people should take responsibility for their actions, and there is nothing wrong with expecting respect, honesty and consideration. However, difficulties arise when we assume that other people must automatically understand our needs, share our perspective or respond exactly as we would. People do not always know what we need unless we communicate it, and they may see a situation differently from the way we do.

This does not mean that we should abandon our standards, ignore our responsibilities or accept every situation without question. Healthy expectations help us make decisions, pursue meaningful goals and treat others appropriately. The difference lies in learning to hold those expectations with flexibility. We can acknowledge that we made a mistake without concluding that we are failures. We can recognise that we would have preferred a different outcome while accepting that we cannot change what has already happened. We can want more for ourselves without dismissing the value of where we are today.

Sometimes, a small change in the language we use with ourselves can make a meaningful difference. Instead of saying, ‘I should have done better,’ we can ask, ‘What can I learn from this experience?’ Rather than saying, ‘I should not feel this way,’ we can say, ‘This is how I feel right now, and I can try to understand why.’ Instead of telling ourselves, ‘I should already be there,’ we can ask, ‘What is the next step I can take?’ These questions do not remove responsibility. They help us respond to our circumstances with greater clarity rather than allowing guilt and self criticism to take over.

Here is a little Mind Exercise to carry with you this week. Whenever you catch yourself saying ‘I should’, pause and ask yourself, ‘Is this a realistic expectation, or am I putting unnecessary pressure on myself?’ Consider whether you are responding to what is actually possible in your circumstances or measuring yourself against an inflexible rule. Then try replacing ‘I should’ with ‘I would like to’, ‘I can work towards’ or ‘I am learning to’. Notice how this simple shift changes the way you speak to yourself.

Learning to recognise should statements is not about making excuses or refusing to improve. It is about understanding that growth does not require constant self punishment. You can learn from your mistakes without repeatedly condemning yourself. You can have goals without believing that your worth depends on achieving them by a particular age. You can also hold others accountable while recognising that not every unmet expectation is deliberate wrongdoing.

Until next week, remember that you can hold yourself accountable without constantly making yourself feel inadequate. You are allowed to learn, grow and change without demanding perfection from yourself at every turn.