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This year October 28 ,fell on a Wednesday. ‘So what?’ you might think, dear reader. For us, a Dutch family in Amsterdam, this date marks the beginning of the ultimate nightmare: a missing child. On this date in 2015, also a Wednesday, our beloved Sophia disappeared in Murchison Falls National Park. Another year has gone by. Another year, filled with pain and despair. Another year without answers and the daily confrontation with her absence. No child is as present as a missing child.

I vividly remember how we took her to the airport, with her new backpack and new hiking shoes. Never could I have imagined that I would see one of those shoes lying along the Nile riverbank, surrounded by other odd items belonging to Sophia. But that is what happened. [Editor’s note: the writer prefers to talk about her daughter in present tense because of the weight this carries in her heart].

The firstborn and only daughter, Sophia is a bright and gifted child, blest with musical and artistic talent. After finishing secondary school, she decides to become a doctor. Passing all exams effortlessly with good grades, she acquires her Bachelor’s degree in Medicine in the early summer of 2015. She is 21 years old and decides to take a gap year before continuing with her masters in Medicine.

Sophia arrives in Uganda late August for an eight-week internship in Lubaga hospital in Kampala. She is quickly taken by the country and its people, as is clear from her elaborate weekly reports we receive. She enjoys her work in the hospital, especially the maternity ward, and gets on very well with her local colleagues. One of them, a midwife, told me how eager Sophia was to learn new things, how fast she picked things up, her desire to be useful, and willingness to help with everything. On her last day in hospital, Sophia writes: ‘I am really sorry my stay here is over. All the people in the hospital are so sweet. I will truly miss them and hope to be back one day. Who knows, as a doctor of Tropical Medicine?’

Her stay in Uganda is to be concluded with a two-week trip through the country, with two Dutch fellow students and a Ugandan driver/guide. They leave Kampala on October 23.

On the sixth day of her journey, October 28, Sophia disappears, around 6.30pm, very soon after arriving at the student centre in Paraa in the national park. It is a very low-budget accommodation, owned and run by Uganda Wildlife Authority (UWA), mainly used for their employees. A place not really fit for tourists, no security to speak of. Companions and the tour guide were aware that Sophia was not well. The guide should never have taken her there.

The circumstances surrounding her disappearance are unclear. The initial investigation left a great deal to be desired and police quickly jumped to the conclusion, without evidence, that it must have been a fatal accident. End of story. Convenient too. However, for us it is not that simple, certainly not for a mother who, from the beginning, has a strong feeling that something is wrong, that there is more than meets the eye.

The insecurity about her fate, the fight between hope and despair, has dominated our lives ever since. As former Minister of Internal Affairs, Jeje Odongo, concluded when I met him a few years later: ‘It is clear to me that this case has not been taken seriously and has been kept at a local level far too long’.

When I first travelled to Uganda, I was looking forward to being acquainted with a new country, but most of all, to see my daughter in a white coat, working in a Kampala hospital. Two weeks after my arrival the trip turned into an unimaginable nightmare and I left Uganda a broken mother. Since then, I have travelled back 27 times. Those journeys have not been easy and have taken a toll on our lives in many ways; mentally, physically and financially. I have tracked down witnesses, written articles, done interviews, spoken with many people and kept lobbying for more investigations, hoping answers would be found for the many, many questions we have. A life surrounded by question marks is not a peaceful life.

A few new investigations were started since that dark day in October 2015. Some never took off, due to various reasons, such as insufficient funding. Another was derailed by the Covid-19 pandemic that took over the world in 2020, and remained unfinished. Several private investigators proved to be disappointing. Not to mention the number of people who claimed to know Sophia’s whereabouts, clearly only intent to monetise our tragedy. I also recall a year when meeting a new CID deputy director on each consecutive trip, four in total. Moreover, every time telling Sophia’s story anew. In the spring of 2022 another investigation was started. Despite sharing a trove of useful information, my request to be involved was met with silence. However, I was promised a report after three months. Those three months turned into 18 months and the report produced more questions than answers. I wrote a substantiated review, which received no response.

Another year passed and I had the opportunity to speak with the President. I expressed my sincere disappointment and frustration with the lack of real progress. H.E offered help and introduced me to a member of his staff. Unfortunately, this person left State House and I was again left with empty hands. All I know is that there is another report, somewhere.

Dealing with a missing child is extremely difficult, if not impossible. Psychologists worldwide speak of ‘ambiguous loss’, a loss that is unclear and uncertain. It is seen as the hardest and most complicated form of grief. It is ongoing; there is no closure or resolution.

We still go by ‘when nothing is sure, everything is possible’ and I am a staunch believer in miracles. They do happen. In the meantime, there is no other option than to keep fighting to find out what happened to our smart, kind-hearted and beautiful Sophia and work hard to make sure she is not forgotten. We miss her so very, very much.

Pomp, color, and vibrant cultural displays marked the fourth anniversary celebration of His Highness Emorimor Papa Paul Sande Emolot Etomeileng as the supreme leader of the Iteso worldwide. The grand event, hosted on Saturday at the Acunet Malaba Sports Ground in Busia County, Kenya, drew thousands of Iteso subjects from across Uganda, Kenya, and the broader diaspora.

The gathering commemorated four years since Emorimor was enthroned as the third cultural head of the Iteso Cultural Union (ICU), succeeding the late Emorimor Augustine Osuban Lemukol. Organized jointly by the ICU Kenya Chapter and the Busia County Government, the venue resonated with rhythmic ululations, the pounding of traditional Ajo drums, and the sweet melodies of Adungu instruments as Emorimor arrived at 11:00 AM. He was flanked by a ceremonial escort of over 50 clan leaders (Ateker) dressed in traditional attire featuring animal skins, ceremonial beads, and elaborate headgear.

Addressing his subjects, Emorimor delivered a passionate plea for labor rights, calling on African governments and corporate employers to guarantee safe working conditions and fair wages for laborers. He noted that many Africans face extreme hazards and severe exploitation while trying to earn a living.

“Our people across Africa are suffering at workplaces. They work in unsafe places with no helmets, no protective gear, poor pay, and long hours. Many die, and many get injured. I call upon governments, investors, and companies across Africa to provide safe working places for our people. A safe worker is a productive worker,” Emorimor stated. He emphasized that the Iteso are a diligent population serving across diverse sectors including agriculture, mining, manufacturing, and office administration throughout East Africa.

“Iteso are everywhere-in Nairobi, Mombasa, Kampala, South Sudan, in mines, and on farms. We must protect them. We want safe working places across the African continent,” he added.

Focusing on communal solidarity, Emorimor urged the Iteso community to look past geopolitical boundaries, describing the artificial divisions left behind by colonial administration as irrelevant to their shared heritage. “Iteso are one. The border at Malaba cannot divide us. Uganda Iteso and Kenya Iteso are one. Let us unite for development, education, and wealth creation,” Emorimor declared.

The international profile of the event was elevated by the presence of a wide array of traditional leaders from across Africa, including representatives of the Kabaka of Buganda, the Kinkoo of Sebei, the King of the Luhya (Wanga), the King of the Kalenjin, the King of the Maasai, King Omran Ombaiwa from Egypt, the King of Eswatini, representatives of the Zulu Kingdom, Omwenengo wa Bugwe Robert Obara Nahaama III, the King of the Bemba from Zambia, and representatives from the Ndebele Kingdom of Zimbabwe.

Speaking on behalf of the visiting traditional leaders, His Highness Peter Swilikei Kissa, the cultural leader of the Kinkoo of Sebei, commended the Ugandan administration for maintaining a conducive environment for traditional governance to thrive. “We thank the Government of Uganda, led by President Museveni, for giving room for cultural institutions. In the past, cultural institutions were banned, but now we are free to work with the government for development. We ask other African governments to also give space to cultural institutions because culture is identity,” Swilikei remarked, highlighting how his own institution actively supports state health and education initiatives.

Representing the Ugandan central government, State Minister for Education and Sports, Peter Ogwang, stressed the critical role cultural leaders play as mobilization partners for national socio-economic transformation. He asked traditional authorities to rally their communities behind state poverty-alleviation initiatives such as Universal Primary Education (UPE), Universal Secondary Education (USE), the Parish Development Model (PDM), Emyooga, and the Youth Livelihood Program.

“I thank Emorimor for organizing this anniversary. I call upon cultural institutions across Africa to support government programs because government cannot do it alone. Emorimor, kings, and chiefs are closer to the people than government. Help us mobilize people to take children to school, embrace PDM and Emyooga, fight teenage pregnancy, and end early marriages,” Ogwang appealed.

The minister expressed particular concern over school dropout rates among young girls due to economic hardship and early pregnancy. “In Teso, many girls drop out at P.7 and S.2 because of pregnancy and poverty. Emorimor, your voice is powerful. Tell your people to keep girls in school. Education is key for wealth creation, and without education, there is no wealth,” Ogwang stated, reaffirming that the Ugandan government would maintain its monthly stipends, office support, and logistical backing for recognized traditional leadership.

From the Kenyan delegation, Busia Deputy County Governor Arthur Odera reiterated his administration’s commitment to promoting indigenous culture and bolstering youth development. He confirmed that the county government had formally allocated land in Amagoro for the construction of an official Iteso cultural center.

“We as Busia County respect Iteso culture. We have given land for a cultural center and shall work with Emorimor to promote education and fight teenage pregnancy, which remains high in Busia,” Odera said. Addressing the gathered delegates, he added: “Your Royal Highnesses and great people of Ateker, let us use this landmark anniversary not only to celebrate our glorious heritage but to forge an enduring economic network. The government of Kenya remains steadfast in partnering with traditional institutions to foster peace, prosperity, and unity.”

The cross-border celebration was also attended by prominent Ugandan lawmakers, including Tororo Municipality MP Shyam Jay Tanna, West Budama South MP George Oketcho, Tororo South County MP Freddrick Angura, and Tororo North County MP Simon Nicholas Owino, alongside local leaders and civic delegations from both nations.